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Health update and my companion Ditty

Even though I try to be positive it is difficult every day with tiredness , pain in my joints headaches
It continues to be cruel . Having the house done will help me to cut down on the difficulties I had going to bed . I struggled with the stairs which is one of the reasons for the changes in the House and our bedroom moving downstairs. I think it will be easier for jay as everything for me will be on one level . M.E can be cruel and it is difficult watching people of my age on Facebook being able to so many things. Even though I don’t really leave the house unless I have a Doctors appointment or Hospital check up . The things I would love to do is walk with jay hand in hand like couples do.
Jay has been a rock for me and emotionally it has helped my situation and I have grown to accept things havnt really progressed for me in the best way with my health . when it comes to walking I know we have amused ourselves with other interests. I love to blog and read and we watch so much drama and American shows. The other thing that helps is our kids and little companion Aphrodite our little pug who makes me laugh and is great to have near me she is a real comfort . From a baby she has picked up early when I feel ill  on the horrendous days she sits by me. Aphrodite gets plenty of exercise going on riverside walks with jay once or twice a day . Mainly it’s  two times a day she has a walk plus we have a large garden for her too run around and play. Yesterday was the most gross day with Aphrodite as she got into next doors garden and ate cat 🐈 feaces . Absolutely gross and my face must of been a picture . We couldn’t believe it the thought of cuddling up with her was not on my list of favourites. Pugs have weird little foibles and I will list them at some point.
Today we have started an early morning by getting up and getting ready for ditty’s walk and in my case a nice hot cup of coffee ☕️ at home . Jay has just started to get ready so he can take her for her daily walk and I will be sitting waiting for there return. Aphrodite ( ditty ) is really excitable and interactive this morning with her wiggle bum as we say . It’s funny because you stroke her and she goes in circles and wags her tail but you can only stroke her if she keeps still. It’s so funny though and entertaining for first thing in the morning . This week ditty went to the groomers and had a really beautiful wash , brush , nails cut and the piste de resistance a spray of beautiful cologne which was really great . When she arrived home she smelt amazingly beautiful so we need to keep her groomers in the diary for next time.

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